Sigma males are a breed of their own, but it’s not uncommon for them to be misunderstood by those around them. Often times, people on the outside find them hard to pin down, and may even mistake them for an alpha. The elusive nature of the sigma male means that he can be hard to read, but there are some unmistakable signs that set them apart from other men.
While on the surface he may seem like an alpha, the things in life that the sigma devotes the bulk of his energy towards are the best way to distinguish a true sigma male. Here at Bloke Box we’ve put together a collection of eleven obsessions held by the sigma male that can be used to spot him in a crowd. If you find yourself fixated on most or all of these obsessions, chances are that you yourself are indeed a sigma male. Let us know about your sigma style obsessions in the comments. Let’s get down to business and unpack what matters most to the sigma male.
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Maintaining his personal space
Sigma males are notorious lone wolves. They don’t have time for worrying about group dynamics, or trying to please others. These men prefer to stand on their own two feet, and there are few things that disturb a sigma male more than feeling that his personal space is being invaded. Making sure to maintain clear boundaries around his personal space is one of the major ways that the sigma male stays true to his lone wolf nature. Having total control over his personal environment satisfies his desire to live on his own terms.
It’s easy to spot this tendency in sigma males who are unwillingly forced to share their space with someone. Clingy friends or romantic partners who don’t respect the boundaries that the sigma has in place for his personal space will quickly find themselves dropped. For this reason, sigma males tend to be averse to environments like dorms, where they know they will possess a limited ability to maintain their own sense of order.
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Leading a life of exploration
The sigma male is, by nature, a curious mind. He will simply never be satisfied without looking beyond his own horizons. This thirst for experience and knowledge means that the sigma male often finds himself obsessed with chasing opportunities to explore. His willingness to try new things means he will always be the first to volunteer for new experiences, and often inspires others around him to do so in the process. The sigma male doesn’t seek to explore the world for the purpose of being admired, he has a genuine thirst for life that leaves him obsessed with trying new things and leaving no stone unturned.
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Living by his own set of rules and morals
The sigma male walks his own path in life, and as such lives by his own set of rules and morals. Sigma men have little regard for the rules or expectations put in place by society, and will always judge the correct way to act for himself. No amount of preaching will get through to these free thinkers, and the typical sigma male is somewhat obsessed with living by his own set of rules and writing own moral code. There are few things more frustrating to a sigma male than being caged in by rules and expectations put in place by others. The sigma male’s confidence in his own judgement means he is more comfortable setting his own boundaries. However, the high level of integrity displayed by the sigma male means that when he writes rules and morals for himself, he is one hundred percent intent on sticking to them.
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Attention to detail
Sigma males are notoriously clever and have an intellectual thirst that is noticeable to those around them. Their noteworthy level of intellect and ability to process a high degree of information can result in being hyper aware of minor details. This trait is what makes sigma males so effective at their work, and such a valuable member to have as part of a team. The fact that they naturally think outside the box, coupled with their high attention to detail, means that sigma males are often able to spot flaws or new possibilities that were invisible to those around them. Their passion for perfection and love for thoroughness means that the little details hardly ever slip past the sigma male unnoticed, and this is a key element of why the sigma male is so good when it comes to appreciating the wonder of life.
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Thrill seeking
Explorers and free thinkers by nature, it should come as no surprise that the sigma male is a natural born thrill seeker. Living a quiet, orthodox life simply is simply not of interest to the sigma male. Sigmas are not afraid to push their limits as they explore what the world has to offer, and often this leads them to possess a ready willingness to engage in daring stunts. Enjoying extreme sports, travelling to exotic destinations, and putting themselves on the line are all types of thrill seeking that sigma males can often be seen to engage in. This thrill seeking is underpinned by a natural sense of self assurance, and a total lack of fear when it comes to failure.
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Unfiltered self-expression
One thing sigma males can become obsessed with is the freedom to express themselves however they see fit. While sigma males tend to avoid the limelight, they are also known to develop unique styles or quirks that come as a result of unfiltered expression. Sigmas are remarkably averse to conformity, and can often be spotted coming up with new ways to flout the norms and expectations of everyone else in the social hierarchy. The sigma male’s confidence comes from deep within, not from his position in the socio sexual hierarchy. This self fulfilled confidence means that the sigma male naturally dedicates himself to maintaining an unfiltered ability to express his true self.
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Pursuing opportunity
Sigma males hate nothing more than to settle. In fact, some would argue that they simply can’t. Aware and confident of his own abilities, the sigma male will always strive to reach greater heights and fulfill his true potential. That’s why these men are fixated on pursuing all opportunities, in all areas of their lives. The sigma male won’t hesitate out of fear or insecurity, and as a result ends up chasing opportunities that less self assured men might fight intimidating. With his high intellect and emotional intelligence, this trademark self confidence usually pays off, and sigma males are notorious for easily climbing to positions of importance and squeezing the most out of every opportunity life offers them.
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Making time for self reflection
Being highly introspective and cerebral in nature, the sigma male makes self reflection a major area of priority within his life. It goes completely against the nature of the sigma male to simply float through life without addressing himself and taking a good hard look in the mirror. The sigma male is not afraid to see his own flaws, and in fact is somewhat obsessed with self reflection. Being a lone wolf, it is essential for the survival of the sigma to be highly aware of his own skills and limitations. Knowing the importance of this, sigma males take great care to preserve time in their lives for self reflection, and never make excuses or let themselves off the hook.
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Financial independence
The need to live on his own terms is at the heart of the sigma male’s core values and lifestyle. Achieving financial independence is a crucial step in the sigma male’s ability to walk his own path. That is why sigma males will often be seen to make their financial stability and independence an area of utmost priority in life. There’s nothing these lone wolves hate more than having to ask for a hand out. Luckily, the confidence and intelligence of sigma males mean they are usually able to ascend to positions of financial success with relative ease, when compared with many of their male counterparts. Furthermore, because the sigma male cares little for what society deems desirable, his financial independence is often safeguarded by an absence of frivolous spending on shallow goods.
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Embracing growth
There is nothing in life more rewarding to a sigma male than feeling the experience of true growth. This arises from the fact that the sigma male is deeply in touch with himself, and possesses a skilled ability for self reflection. The sigma male embraces every opportunity for learning about himself, and sees all of life as a series of lessons that lead him to a better version of himself. This passion for growth is a major part of why the sigma male lives without a fear of failure. He believes that “failure” is in fact merely an opportunity to learn, and this allows him to always thrive even when he is walking down his own path on his own terms. It makes him adaptable, flexible, and able to reach his full potential in just about any environment. This need and drive to grow makes the sigma male a natural source of inspiration for those around him, as he never lets insecurity act as a limitation.
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Freedom
The number one thing you’ll find a sigma male obsessing over is his feeling of personal freedom. Above all else, the most important thing to a sigma is the ability to live as his authentic self. He will not be swayed or pulled by the masses, and cares little for the judgement of society. He will dedicate himself to cultivating a lifestyle that allows him to manage , develop, and express himself without restraint. His unabashed devotion to his freedom often draws the awe and admiration of all those around the sigma male.
Well, does this sound familiar? Do you find yourself obsessing over any, or perhaps all, of the fixations named on our list? If these obsessions do feel all too familiar, it’s pretty solid evidence that you are one of the rare sigma males who choose to live outside the social hierarchy.
